Can someone show me before and after pictures of male anatomy after anal sex has occurred? Had anal sex, hearing things, friend needs a body fix. |
| Unless a guy is repeatedly impaled or impaled with larger devices, there is no change; a male's penis is about the same size or smaller than what comes out of the anus naturally. |
I am gay, is it weird that I am not exactly turned on by the thought of anal sex? I am 17 and in the closet and there are a number of people i could see myself with. However, when i picture myself with someone i think about kissing, snugglin, touching and pretty much all else but anal sex. I guess i am not really attracted to it? Is that because i havent done it? Is this out of the ordinary? |
It is completely normal. I doubt it's because you haven't had sex yet, so don't stress over it. Perhaps you prefer something else in bed? You're young, just enjoy life and I'm sure you'll find something that you personally find erotic to enjoy.
If it helps, there are people who don't anal sex, but oral sex. So if you are not turned on by anal sex, try finding something that will. I'm not saying to go all out and have sex, but to experiment a little with yourself. If you want to go have sex please be safe, okay. But I think it would be best to try and fantasize about you in different sexual and sensual situations. Fantasies are a good thing to have because it helps us reach sexual satisfaction, plus it's fun!
Sorry if it doesn't help, but I hope it has helped somewhat.
I wish you the best of luck. |
Is it completely unhealthy to have anal sex with partner? even though the penis seems to fit much better there than the vagina and ancient drawings and art work of early man show prolific pictures of men and women having anal sex |
| Not unhealthy in the least. So long as both partners are disease free before hand there is nothing unhealthy about it. Don't pay any attention to the old wives tales about ill effects to either the man or the woman. Some women really do love it, I'm one, but others don't and there shouldn't be any undue pressure if a woman doesn't. She shouldn't decide until she gives it a try but it's her decision to make and the man should respect that. As for it not being a "natural" act, well neither is oral sex but how many of you guys would want to give up having your woman go down on you? |
What's so wrong about anal sex (This is what someone said about it)? Think, Think, Think, Think... what is the anus for? It's for eliminating TOXIC WASTE from your body. Have you learned anything about AIDS, originally known as Gay-Bowel-Disease? It was founded by Anal Sex.
Why would you want to have any contact with the area of your body that eliminates toxic waste from your body? I know it's because of the porn you and your circle has been inducted by, but remember, Porn Stars are professionals that have committed themselves to personal abuse to earn a dollar. The all die young, of horrendous diseases like Aids. They succeed in their professions because of our base desires to abuse ourselves and others. That doesn't mean you have to really do it.
Sex and Sexual desire is designed to create babies to keep our species alive. Any form of sex that is NOT capable of leading to that end result, deviates from the purpose. Any behavior that deviates from the purpose is known as deviant behavior. Have you ever heard of someone known as a "Deviant"? Are you one? Would you like to be one? Would your Mother be proud of you if you were one? What about Dad?
If your grandmother caught you, or saw a video or picture of you having anal sex... how would you feel? Do you understand the long term ramifications of engaging in deviant behavior?
This isn't about shaving hair, this is about changing, in a bad way, the rest of your life...
THINK, THINK, THINK, THINK...
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What I think that is just because a penis and a vagina are meant to reproduce guyren, most people don't have sex to have guyren every time. So they are deviating from sex's natural intention. Oral sex is deviating from what the mouth is naturally intended for: eating, drinking, and removing toxic wastes from the stomach. Kissing? How does that have any purpose, the lips are originally meant to cool the air or not cool the air down before entering the lungs. What I'm trying to say is just because one thing has a purpose doesn't mean everything else doesn't have a purpose. It's called making love! Guys have a male equivalent g-spot and so what what people do in the privacy of their homes?! The penis removes waste and a vagina removes waste with it's monthly "cleaning". |
| aww..I wanna try it so bad :( |
How can I stretch out my "anal hole" prior to sex? Ok here's the story: I'm straight/bi-curious. And I'm planning stuff with my friend who is also bi-curious. Stuff= Yea, that. And I know from pictures and ex-girlfriends that he's 11 inches. NOT KIDDING. I'd rather not die so is there any stretches or exercises I could do to stretch out that area? Not including fingering of course, kinda gross to think about. |
All I can tell you is to make sure you have something to bite down on. It is going to hurt because there really are not exercises you can to to stretch it. And if he does have 11 inches he will not be able to put the whole 11 inches inside of you. Why haven't you thought about doing it the other way around or let him practice on you with a medium size vibe with quite a bit of baby oil on it.
Believe me, from experience, the best thing that works is baby oil. I've tried that anal lube, it doesn't work.
Good luck in your adventures. |
Anal sex any advise on getting it in? My husband and i have tried it several times however he cant fit, get the picture i dont need to go into the details, each time he wore a condoma nd had large amounts of lube on. I dont want to streatch myself at all so anyone have a serious solution or some special type of lube because weve tried alot. |
You just got to take it, yea it sucks cuz it will hurt at first then it will start to feel good.
Or u can get a little buzzed so u will be less nervous and u wont feel it so much
lots of lube i mean lots ! |
Just wondering?? about anal sex and porn stars? Porn has been getting heavier and heavier. I have a friend who works for Combat Zone ( a porn production company). When i see her around, she told me to check out her movies and pictures in a website. She also told me that 4 guys had sex with her at the same time. 4 guys? I know vaginally, anally and orally but where else? so 1 penis left right? so i asked her, this and she laughed and told me that i am very innocent. I don't think i am inoocent but i just don't get it. ( i have a very satisfying sex life so i thought to myself why do i need porn). Then she told me that she stuck 2 penises inside her anal. Am i wrong to be confused and find that is a little extreme and impossible?is she telling the truth or she is just fooling with me? |
| As tastes get more extreme this sort of thing is happening. The women who do it are either nagged into doing it, high as a kite or just foolish. Having an anus pounded like that will bring problems down the line. |
Are there any gays who don't like anal sex and can't stand it? I'm asking this because I've watched gay porn a few times in my life, I couldn't watch anything involving anal(It just didn't make any sense to me, and I was irritated). Only BJ videos, I was very curious to watch these videos, and after watching I felt like sh*t for days. Anyways, I mostly watch lesbian porn, older men with girls, and vaginal pictures. I'm going to to see a shrink in a couple of days to help clarify things. I just wanted to see what everyone else thinks about this. Thanks. BTW, I'm 22/M, never had sex. |
First of all, are you gay or straight. It would help people answer this question if we knew.
Just from reading your question, it sounds to me like you're straight, which should automatically explain why watching gay porn of any kind made you irritated or feel crappy for days afterwards.
However, if you're gay, then I think seeing that shrink will probably be a good thing because you've definitely got some issues going on here.
Oh, and I'm not fond of being on the receiving end of anal sex. I'm a top man. I have had anal sex in the past, which is why I figured out I like being a top better. |
Am I just overly suspicious or is he looking at porn? My boyfriend of 7 months allowed me to borrow his laptop the other day, and as I was typing in a search, I saw that someone had recently searched for free pictures of anal sex. This really bothers me, should I address this with him? I would be very upset if I knew he had been, since we are in a Christian college, and he could get in big trouble if the administration found out. Is it just me, or should I just forget about it. |
"he could get in big trouble if the administration found out"
I think he's in big trouble anyway -- in spite of what some posters here will tell you, online porn is a BIG problem. It's NOT "just you" -- it's an issue that he needs to address and get under control right away, or it will dog him his whole life, and ultimately control him.
There is such a thing as internet porn addiction, and it's incredibly destructive. (Google this yourself if you don't believe me -- see below.)
If you truly care about this guy, you need to confront him with the truth. |
If you had to have anal sex with one of the three 17 year olds in this picture which one would it be? www.imagebam.com/image/94da8989553023 |
| My boyfriend says they're all too fat, but if he had to choose it would be the one on the left. |